Foods Expectant Mothers Should Avoid

Expectant mums know certain foods should be avoided during pregnancy to protect the health of their unborn baby. The list of foods to avoid by      pregnant mums, however, has become so much and so controversial that it’s difficult to know which foods pose a health risk and which ones are safe for consumption.
Avoid These Foods

 
When it comes to pregnancy, certain foods should most definitely be avoided. Foods that are too high in mercury or Vitamin A can pose a health risk to your baby, as can foods that are known to cause foodborne illness such as Listeriosis and Salmonella poisoning.
If you’re worried about what to avoid as an expectant mum, talk to your doctor to find out exactly what foods you can or cannot eat.
In the meantime, you should avoid eating the following foods which have been proven to be the most dangerous when it comes to pregnancy.
Eggs:
Raw eggs may be tainted with salmonella, a bacterium that can cause fever, vomiting, and diarrhea, so avoid any restaurant-made Caesar salad dressing, homemade eggnog, raw cookie dough, and soft scrambled or sunny-side up eggs — any dish in which the eggs (both yolk and white) are not cooked completely.
Unpasteurized Juice:
Avoid juice (like cider) sold at farm stands; it may not have undergone pasteurization, a processing method that kills bacteria and toxins. Though the majority of milk and juices sold in stores today are pasteurized, there are still some brands on shelves that aren’t, so read labels. They are unsafe due to possible contaminants that can harm the fetus
Caffeinated Coffee/Tea/Pop:

The amount of caffeine a pregnant woman can safely consume has been widely debated. Many doctors recommend that pregnant women consume no more than 200 milligrams of caffeine per day. On average, an 8-ounce cup of coffee contains approximately 95 milligrams of caffeine. If you’re unsure how much caffeine is safe, you should avoid it altogether until you talk to your doctor because caffeine can affect the heart rate of your fetus.
Liver and most liver products:
These foods contain dangerously high amounts of Vitamin A. Too much Vitamin A, especially during the first few months of pregnancy, has been linked to birth defects in babies. Monitor your intake of Vitamin A (ask your doctor how much of this vitamin is safe) and avoid high-dose multi-vitamin supplements, fish liver oil supplements and any other supplement that contains Vitamin A.
Unpasteurized milk:
Stay away from raw milk (also known as unpasteurized milk), including sheep’s milk or goat’s milk (that includes goat cheese as well). Unpasteurized milk, along with uncooked and unwashed food, is a vehicle for pathogens to enter the body and make you extremely sick. Raw milk has a high risk of being contaminated with Listeria, a dangerous infection that can lead to miscarriage, severe illness and even stillbirth.
 

Smoothie Recipe: Watermelon Strawberry Lime Smoothie

Watermelons are everywhere. And they are amazingly nutritious too!
Consistently seen in almost every corner of the street being hawked by abokis and fruit vendors, there’s certainly more to watermelons than their availability and flavour. Ranking high on the list of the world’s healthiest foods, watermelon is a potent body-healing fruit. Its nutrient-dense quality makes it super healthy. Let’s take a quick glance at some of the numerous benefits of watermelon.
A juicy slice of watermelon gives you at least 20% of your daily intake of Vitamin C and almost 17% vitamin A. Loaded with Lycopene, carotenoid phytonutrients and antioxidant essential for cardiovascular health, bone health and prevention of certain cancers, watermelon is also widely known as a refreshing natural thirst-quencher. The high quality of Vitamin A packed in watermelon significantly makes it a star for radiant skin and hair growth as it encourages healthy growth of new collagen and elastin cells.
The presence of citrulline in watermelon has shown conclusively to reduce the accumulation of fat in the body. It’s also low in calories and is fat-free, making it a dynamic natural weight manager. That’s not all! The potassium content and amino-acid in this super-fruit makes it a potent sore muscle reliever and an excellent promoter of healthy nerves. Here’s an exciting one – citrulline in watermelon activates the production of arginine, a Viagra–like chemical compound in the body that boosts libido.
watermelon smoothie
There’s so much to benefit from watermelon, and I don’t hesitate in making smoothies out of it. On this note, here’s a juicy watermelon based smoothie recipe! Smoothies are incredibly refreshing. The sweetness of strawberries and the tartness make such great additions to balance off this watermelon smoothie.

Ingredients:

2 cups fresh watermelon, chopped
1 cup frozen strawberries
1 cup of plain low-fat yoghurt or almond milk
10ml Lime juice
1 Tbsp Chia seeds (optional)
Ice cubes

Directions:
Pour all the ingredients in a blender and puree till smooth. Remember, the liquid should always go in first as the base when making smoothies.
Pour into glasses and serve.
Why don’t you give this a go someday? It’ll sure make a reinvigorating nutritious breakfast or a perfect hydrating drink/snack on a hot day!
 

Health Benefits Of Your Favourite Nigerian Vegetables

Abundantly blessed with vegetation, Nigeria has an enormous array of agricultural produce, and top on this list of food produce are leafy greens. Amazingly rich in vitamins and antioxidants, these healthy fresh vegetables form the basis of most Nigerian soups and quite many dishes.
Having a fair knowledge of the nourishing power of these greens will to a large extent help you adequately harness them. Without much ado, let’s have a look at some of the most popular green vegetables that grace the table in most Nigerian homes.
Ugwu (Telfairia Occidentalis)

Indigenous to Southern Nigeria and also called fluted pumpkin or fluted gourd, this leafy green is an attractive commodity for many cuisines, home and abroad. Like all other dark leafy greens, ugwu leaves are loaded with outstanding antioxidant properties, dietary fibre and quality levels of Vitamins A, B2, C and K. Other nutrients such as calcium, copper, iron, potassium, zinc and traces of folic acid and manganese are equally found in these leaves.
Ugwu is known to be anti-inflammatory while also possessing several incredible preventive and healing capacities.
Ewedu (Corchorus)

This is another green leafy with lots of nutrients and health gains. Slimy in nature when cooked, this leafy green is a favourite amongst the Yorubas and in many other non-Yoruba homes and the North. The Hausas call it Rama Ayoyo.
Also loaded with antioxidants and Vitamins A, C and E, ewedu replenishes and prevents cell damage from free radicals; and can protect your body from several degenerative diseases. Weight loss, firm lustrous skin, improved eyesight, strong bones and healthy teeth, immunity boost, and healthy bowel movement are some of the numerous advantages of including jute leaves in your diet regularly.
Scent Leaves (Ocimum gratissimum)

The leaves with the many names – that’s how I refer to this versatile nutritious leafy green. The English call it Basil, Yorubas call it Efirin, the Ibos Nchanwu, and even the Hausas have a name for it – Daidoya. True to its name, scent leaves are prominent for their distinct aroma, one of the many reasons it’s an essential condiment in Peppersoup and several other dishes.
Beyond that, they are highly laden with beta-carotene antioxidants, calcium, phosphorous, iron and vitamins A, K and C. Thus often used for natural curative purposes – from the treatment of bacterial infections, STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections), to diabetes and several gastrointestinal ailments. Regular intake of Efirin lowers your cholesterol levels and provides numerous essential nutrients required for optimal health.

11 Things You Didn’t Know You Could Do With Your Hair Dryer

A lot of us have a hair dryer in our homes, and all we use it for is to dry our hair. The hair dryer is such a versatile tool, it can come in handy for tasks around the house. Here are a few things you might find your hair dryer useful for:
Hair Dryer Uses

Break in your shoes: You can use your hair dryer to stretch out your tight shoes. Wear a pair of thick socks and put the shoes on, blow warm air on the tight part of the shoes for a minute or two and walk around with the shoes until they cool off.

 

Straighten your wrinkled clothes: If you notice a wrinkle or two on your clothes, just sprinkle a little water and use your hair dryer to dry it off.
Remove tiny particles or crumbs from your laptop keyboard: Just turn the keyboard onto its side and blow cool hair.
Use a hair dryer to dry your underwear or pantyhose when you are in a hurry
Use your hair dryer to remove water rings on your wooden furniture
Remove car bumper stickers, stickers on wooden items or labels on bottles with your hair dryer
Ever sat on chewing gum? You can remove chewing gum from your clothes or even your rug by blowing hot air with your hair dryer to melt the gum and then remove it.
Dry your manicure or pedicure faster with your hair dryer, just set it to the lowest heat
For a glossy finish for your leather shoes, blow them with warm air after polishing.
Dry your toothbrush or sponge with your hair dryer when packing them for a trip.

 

Accessories to Brighten Your Home

It is easy to admire beautiful spaces online, in magazines even real life but it takes careful planning to achieve the same feat. There are basics you need to get for a living space; furniture and fittings but what gives a space character is how you choose to decorate.
Here are simple accessories to brighten your home;
1.    Mirrors
Besides their utility, mirrors can be used to brighten and give life to a room. Everyone likes mirrors. Well, most people. Putting a mirror with an artistic frame in your living room gives a focal point and draws people in. You can also arrange mirrors of different shapes and sizes along the wall of a passageway or corridor.
2.    Plants
Greenery never harmed anyone. You can have a potted plant by the corner of your room, windowsill or a small potted plant like a cactus on the centre table. You can also put fresh flowers as often as possible on a centre table or mantle piece in your living room.
3.    CurtainsCurtains are essential. When decorating your windows you have a wide variety to choose from with curtains. You have a variety of textures, fabrics, lengths, colour and design to pick from. You can choose monochrome, chevron prints, chiffon fabrics, three-quarter to full lengths. Your choice is endless. Pick according to the theme you are decorating with.
4.    Side Stools
    You do not have to go the boring traditional route. Try colourful plastic side stools to brighten your home.
5.    Throw Pillows
    They would brighten even dark furniture. Bold neon colours would make your room pop.
6.    Rugs
    Think luxurious Persian rugs or more realistically the faux rugs that may be used as a centrepiece for your rooms.
7.    Lights    Sounds pretty obvious right? Get artistic with your choice of lighting. Use beautiful chandeliers, bulbs and even artsy lamp holders.
8.    Vases    If you are not one for potted plants, you can still have beautiful vases placed strategically around your house.
9.    Baskets    Use raffia and bamboo baskets for storage and decor to create a rustic feel.
10.    Paintings    Wouldn’t it be nice to have a large painting of a vacation spot somewhere in your home? You can go for any artwork that catches your fancy.
 
 There is so much you can do to brighten your space but remember a house where there is love is a home.

Family TV Series to Binge on This Weekend

I have been looking forward to the weekend since Monday and to be fair this week has been fast. I think it is because of my state of mind; I feel so calm and relaxed. I am putting my worries aside.
Now what to do this weekend?
Sometimes going out to various events or looking for activity is just stressful and let’s face it, expensive. I am going to curl up in bed, eat good food and binge on TV series. I will worry about my weight and other issues next week. I will be curling up alone, but if you are going to be with family, I have some suggestions for TV programs to binge on;
List Of TV Series
Lip Sync Battle

This show is a lot of fun. Basically, they pitch two celebrities against each other to pretend to sing and perform popular hit songs. The American hit show features LL Cool J and Chrissy Teigen (John Legend’s wife). There is even the African adaptation hosted by D’banj and Pearl Thusi showing on MTV Africa. You are going to love it! Thank me later.
How I Met Your Mother

Hey, there is no method to these suggestions. This list is in no particular order. How I Met Your Mother is LEGEN-(wait for it)-DARY! It is hilarious plus there are nine seasons so you are fully booked once you start.
Blackish

Is it just me or is there something about Tracy Ellis Ross’ eyes? Oh well, you decide in between laughing at the funniest comebacks on this show.
Naruto Shippuden

Get your glasses ready or contact lenses if you please and prepare to read the subtitles. There are about one million episodes, and your children would love it. Yes, it is an anime cartoon. I absolutely love it! I believe there are some moral and life lessons to be learnt from it. Don’t take my word for it, watch and let me know.
The Librarians

Go back in time and forward in time and back in time with this TV show. All that travelling and you would not have to leave your house. It is child-friendly too.
War At Home

It has many innuendos. I guarantee that you would definitely laugh and forget your worries. They talk about homosexuality a bit just in case this is something that you would be uncomfortable with, though in a funny way.

When to Introduce Him to Your Kids

Relationships are hard to navigate sometimes. There is no one size fits all approach when it comes to dating, friendships, marriages and even dating with kids. However, certain ground rules apply to a majority of people.
Deciding on whom to date is even more important when you have a child. It is already a tremendous responsibility to yourself dating someone much less of when you have children to protect and look after.  Here are some of my ground rules:

Be sure of a commitment
There are certain relationships we know are for a season, to fulfil whatever need or desire of that moment. Do not introduce your children to every man you meet on your journey to find Prince Charming. It gets harder to explain where Uncle Chinedu went and why he won’t be visiting. Only introduce a man when you have had conversations and taken steps towards a future together. Present the man in your life when you have completely accepted him and are in an exclusive, committed relationship.
Have a conversation with the father of your children
Yes, dating with children can be tricky. It is best to involve the father of your kids in their lives as much as possible depending on your personal circumstance. It is a good idea to mention that you are currently in a serious relationship, and your new significant other would be in the lives of your children
Prepare your children
It is okay to mention to your kids that you will be having a friend around. This helps you gauge the mood, and address their questions and emotions. It also helps reassure them that they are still priority and that they are not losing their mom.
Introduce your man in small doses
As much as you would want your man and your children to bond instantly, it does not always happen that way. Invite him first to social gatherings where your kids, friends and family will be present. The key is to invite him first around people your child is already comfortable with. Try not to force awkward moments and extended visits at home when they are not yet comfortable with each other.
Encourage your man to form a personal relationship with your child
Invite him to your child’s milestones such as birthday parties and school events and let him take part in your child’s favourite recreational activities. Try not to encourage competition with the biological father.
 
Best of luck!
 
 
 

How To Look Younger Without Breaking The Bank

Looking years younger than your age no longer means a visit to the plastic surgeon. Cosmetic surgery may have its place, but there are cheap and effective things you can start doing today that will make you look years younger in a relatively short period.
What To Do To Look Younger
Exercise

Exercise is one of the most important ways to more youthful looks. Both facial and general exercise help to circulate more nutrients and oxygen to your skin to make you look more radiant. Exercise kick-starts the collagen production process of building younger skin which slows down as you age.
Exercise also improves your posture making you look and feel younger along with making you more confident.
More training also means less grey hairs as it helps to reduce stress and helps you sleep better which means less dark circles and puffy eyes
Protein and Fatty Acid
A diet rich in protein and essential fatty acids, both found in salmon and other oily fish, eggs, nuts and seeds is a skin-friendly diet.  If you’re not trying to lose weight, stay away from low-fat diets, they are enemies for skin and can give you a drawn, sagging complexion by starving the skin of essential fats and amino acids (only in protein-based foods). The skin needs to look plump from the inside out.
Facial Massage

One of the most efficient ways to a more radiant, glowing skin tone is facial massage. A good facial massage helps stimulates the skin, along with the complex network of blood vessels, muscles and lymph drainage points underneath the surface to restore skin to vibrancy. Facial massage is best done at night when most of us have a little more time.  You can simply use your facial cleanser as a lubricant for the massage.  But if you have dry skin, rub it with a few drops of a skin-nourishing oil such as rosehip before applying your night cream.
Eat foods rich in vitamins and minerals. Vitamins C and A means no acne, scars, wrinkles and softer skin.
Drink at least 2litres of water daily; it keeps the skin hydrated.
Body Oils and Body Butters
These work well to moisturise the skin, fade scars, prevent wrinkles and stretch marks, moisturise the lips, treat puffy eyes, and give elasticity to the skin. You should try either Shea butter, Cocoa butter, Mango butter or Avocado butter.
Body oils such as coconut, avocado, carrot, rosehip, almond, sweet almond, lemon, tea tree, papaya, lime, orange, argan, sea buckthorn oil and olive oil also help to improve the appearance of the skin. Massage a light quantity of any of these oils on your skin. Oils and butters are best used in the evening. Citrus oils (Lemon, Orange and Lime) should be mixed with coconut oil or any body butter.
Get Enough Sleep
Try as much as possible to add sleep to your beauty regimen. It is the tried and tested way to maintain youthful skin for many years to come.

How to Spot Original Gold Jewellery

I was my mother’s first child and a daughter at that so you can imagine how crazy she went getting baby girl things. I mean I think I had it all. She would even save up to get me the most adorable dresses. She did not stop there; she would wear only gold jewellery for her precious baby girl. Fast forward to secondary school boarding house, after losing more than a few precious metals, my mother decided to introduce me to GL, gold plated or plain old fashion jewellery.
The problem was as soon as I wore non-gold pieces of jewellery my ears or wrists for twenty-four hours I would develop a rash and eventually blisters. The fastest way to spot fake gold and original gold jewellery is to put them on me. Hahahaha not kidding.
Since there is not enough of me to go round, I will give you some simple ways to spot original gold jewellery
Spoting Original Gold Jewellery

Look at it

I do not mean to sound like Captain Obvious but really look at it. Real gold should have some markings especially chains that have a hook to show the number of carats. You may see 18k, 24k. Yes, fake gold can have this, but this is the first step
 

Look at it again

Yes, look again. Check for signs of discolouration. Check for areas of friction, for items like bracelets that may be all over. You may notice a blackish tinge or duller colour in certain areas.
 

Magnetize It

Gold is a metal. Magnets attract metal, right? Wrong. This theory does not apply to gold. An ordinary fridge magnet may not do the trick
 

Scratch It

It is a simple test, but it may end up scratching your gold. Basically, you have to drag your gold against an unglazed ceramic plate. A black streak means it is not gold. A gold streak tells you it is gold
 

Bite It

If all else fails to tell the difference, bite it. I mean what I am saying. When you bite into real gold, your teeth marks should be visible, and there should be an actual indentation.
 
 

Natural Ways to Get Rid of Scars

Scars mean different things to different people and there is usually always a story behind a scar.
Scars are caused as a result of trauma to the skin, ranging from injuries and accidents to skin conditions. Scars can be burns, accident mark, cuts, acne or scrapes. A scar is a sign that the skin has healed.
The most prominent scar on my skin is a chicken pox scar right on my forehead like a bindi i.e. the Indian red spot on the forehead. It is constantly a conversation starter for me. That is one scar I have grown accustomed to.
The other scar I have is from the exhaust pipe of a motorcycle. It has taken ages, but it is almost unnoticeable now.
The truth is, with scars there are no short cuts. It is either going to take your time or your money. There are many procedures for getting rid of scars from laser treatments to sometimes expensive potions. You may opt for home remedies if you do not want to spend an arm and a leg and want to heal the scars naturally.
Natural remedies include:
Lemon

Apply lemon to the scar. Lemons contain acids called alpha hydroxyl acids (AHA) which help to remove dead skin cells, assist new cell growth, and bring back some elasticity to the skin. As a natural bleach, it can help lighten scars.

Make sure the scar and surrounding area are cleaned thoroughly
Put 1 teaspoon of lemon juice on a cotton ball
Rub the cotton ball on the scarred area
Let it sit for about 10 minutes and then rinse it off
Lemon juice may make your skin sensitive to light, so consider wearing sunscreen wherever you applied it when going outside.

Honey

Rub onto scars twice daily. The antibacterial properties of honey can help heal wounds and promote skin cell growth. With constant use, scars should fade. Using honey is not recommended if you have oily skin.
Aloe Vera Gel

Do you remember when Aloe Vera was the rave of the moment? If you have abandoned it, fear not it is still effective. Aloe Vera has anti-inflammatory properties which help reduce skin irritations and help remove dead skin from wounds.

Aloe vera can be found in many forms including gels, ointments, and lotions
Apply and massage the aloe vera directly on the scar tissue several times a day

Shea Butter

Of course, you have to use miracle Shea butter. I personally use this for my scars.
Coconut Oil

Apply coconut oil to scars at least twice a day. Within a week you should start to see scars and stretch marks starting to fade. It is effective in treating scars from burns and skin discolouration.
Egg Whites

The proteins in egg whites can help your skin rejuvenate. Try putting the whites on your affected areas three times a day and hopefully watch your scars begin to fade away. Remember being told to put egg whites on your skin after scalding with hot water? This is exactly why.